“I don’t know!” – a surprisingly wise phrase!

​I have a self-described agnostic friend friend who says his version of a higher power is the simple phrase “I don’t know”, and I think there’s real wisdom in that. “I don’t know” creates space for uncertainty and ambiguity when we are faced with tough decisions and unexpected (but inevitable) challenges. “I don’t know” is an acknowledgement of our imperfection and insecurity, and allows us to be vulnerable and open to learning. “I don’t know” is a commitment to being patient and non-reactive, allowing answers to come when we’re ready to receive them.